Ok, numbing creams, sprays, and condoms out of the way, let's move on to another common suggestion for beating premature ejaculation, why it's retarded, and a better option that actually works.

The 'stop start' technique. God I even hate the title of it!

It's pretty simple in it's basic concept really.

When your having sex (start) and feel like your about to cum you stop. Start stop, simple right? It sounds like it should be effective in theory right?

WRONG!

First off, we're dealing with PE here, and many times it's a very extreme case of PE so the start/stop times are going to make it look like you have some sort of sexual Tourrettes syndrome or something!

Second of all, I will give you one zillion dollars cold hard cash if you can show me a woman who can ever, ever, ever orgasm like that. I'll throw in my first born too!

It's not gonna happen. Most women need at least 10-15 minutes of constant, uninterrupted stimulation to orgasm through intercourse.

A few can get off in a couple of minutes. I know I dated a woman who was thankfully hyper-orgasmic (combined with, I like to think, my hyper-sexiness!)and could come like a X rated Banchee after just a couple of good poundings.

And other women will need far longer, perhaps 30,45, or 60+ minutes to achieve orgasm through intercourse.

There is a more structured, worthwhile variation of this exercise that is actually crucial to overcoming PE, but it ain't nuthin' like it's ugly cousin we're talking about here! More on that below.

Besides, nothing compares to the feeling of pounding away non stop full force and building up that kind of sexual energy. Nothing!

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Cons: This stuff doesn't work as intended for all men, I don't know why, it just doesn't.

Using the cream or spray versions of these can be extremely messy and can get everywhere which you don't want. After all the last thing you want on your lovers vagina is a numbing agent!

The condom is the easiest way to use this stuff as it's built right in so there's no mess and no risk of numbing out something that shouldn't be numbed out as described above. However these come with their own built in problems

#1 You need an erection to put on a condom, you then need to give the numbing agent enough time to kick in which may be longer than your erection may last. It's an X rated catch 22 of trying to stay stimulated enough to keep your erection without blowing your load while waiting for your equipment to be numb enough to keep going. And even then, once it's in full effect, you may be too numb to even keep your erection!

#2 The condom itself. We all know it feels the best, by far, to ride bareback. I'm of course not promoting unprotected sex with strangers but rather in a committed, monogomous relationship. Not just from a physical standpoint but also an emotional standpoint, NOTHING comes even close to having sex with no barriers, no matter how thin they are. You obviously can't have sex without the condom on (and this applies to using lotions/sprays too) because without it, the numbing agent would wipe out any sensation in your partners pussy as it rubbed off of your penis.

#3 The whole damn point of having sex is to feel good and being totally numb is totally pointless, 'nuff said!

So yeah, maybe give these sorts of things a try if your desperate for some sort of immediate quick fix and see how it goes but really, it's not a valid solution at all let alone a long term one.

We'll continue in the next article so stay tuned!

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Or perhaps you've already tried some of the zanier 'tips and tricks' you see touted online to help with this condition. Yet here you are, still suffering.

Let's go over a few of the more popular methods, why they don't work, and why you should avoid them. Then we'll dive into what really does work.

Numbing creams and sprays: This is a good starting point. I'm not actually totally opposed to these as tools in your overall program. What I am opposed to is trying to use them as a long term crutch because they just won't work for that.

What they do have a potential use for is a temporary solution to both last long enough to please your partner and also to take the edge off of your sensitivity in order to help train your central nervous system to control your sexual energy better.

As the name implies, these type of products use numbing agents to deaden the nerve sensations of the skin of your penis, especially focusing on the ultra-sensitive head. They come in the form of sprays, lotions/creams, or my personal recommendation if you go this route (and one I used to use!)are the special condoms with the numbing agent already on the inside.

Pros: Most guys with PE can attest to the extreme, seemingly uncontrollable sensitivity of the head of their penis. So, short term, these products may be of some use. If you can temporarily take the edge off you may be able to sustain intercourse long enough to give your partner an orgasm which of course will make her happy!

We'll continue with the cons in the next article so stay tuned!

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I'm posting it up as a blatant reminder and inspiration to do something about it so you don't go through the rest of your life as a two-pump-chump.

Don't worry my friends, there is definitely light at the end of the tunnel so read all the way through.

One of the biggest problems PE causes is lack of self esteem. There is no doubt that a man generates a good deal of his self esteem, or lack thereof, from his sexual skills.

If you can't last long enough in bed to please your woman with at least one orgasm before coming yourself, you know you've let her down. No matter how many times she tries to tell you 'it's ok honey' you both know it's not! This can be devastating to a man's feeling of sel-worth.

Another of the biggest problems from suffering with PE is the horrible general relationship problems it can cause. You see, it doesn't stay quarantined to the bedroom, hardly! A healthy, fulfilling sex life is essential to a healthy relationship in general. A woman constantly denied orgasms is a woman that will become bitter and resentful real quick. Cheating and divorce are common 'side effects' of PE and if you think about it, how can you blame her?

And this condition not only spills over into the rest of your relationship with your partner, but also into the rest of your life.

Due to the lack of positive self esteem, your work relationships suffer, your friendships suffer, your whole life suffers!

Well it's time to take action my friend, massive immediate action.

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What exactly is PE? The answer to this can be varied including:

-When the male orgasms during penetration before he or his lover wants him to

-When a man ejaculates before his partner 50% or more of the time during sex

I personally find these 'regular' definitions to be rather useless.

I would rather put it like this in plain english: A man's lack of ability to control when, and if, he ejaculates during sexual intercourse.

If your a guy, and you don't have the stamina to go the distance with enough thrusting to allow your woman to achieve orgasm before cumming yourself, that is PE.

To me, it doesn't matter if that is 5, 10, 20, or even 60 minutes! As each woman is different and requires a different amount of time to orgasm during sex. This time frame also varies in the same woman depending on her hormonal levels, how turned on she is, how much foreplay you've given her, etc…

So what it boils down to is not a certain number of minutes you must last before you pop. It comes down to having the capacity to control your sexual energy as long as you need and then when, or even if (we'll talk more about that in another article!), you choose to ejaculate, after your partner has orgasmed at least once, it's a conscious decision vs an involuntary reaction.

Yes this is very possible, I can tell you from first hand experience that it is, and it's well worth the personal time and effort it takes to achieve this.

Just imagine what it's like once you have this ability…

I can tell you that women:

Treat you much differently than if you were a so-so lover.

They bend over backward (figuratively and literally!) to please you both in and out of the bedroom.

You receive much deserved respect and admiration for your sexual prowess.

You never have to beg for sex, they want it just as bad as you if not more.

You have a happy, very satisfied partner who adores you and would never cheat on you.

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