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I don’t know when it happened, but somewhere along
the line “foreplay” got defined as something you do
before sex to make a man hard and a woman wet…

And not long after, oral sex became regarded as the
“state of the art” method for foreplay.

It may have come from the needs of early adult films
for a “fluffier”, a woman who would perform oral on
the male actor until he was firm enough to perform.
These days there’s little need for that as Vitamin V
does the work for them.

But however all of these ideas get into the mainstream,
today most guys actually think that if they go down a
woman and get her good and wet, that they’ve “done their
job” in the foreplay department.

Not the case.

I know that it sounds right because, after all, if she’s
wet, then she’s turned on, and if she’s turned on, then
the foreplay bit has been successfully accomplished…

And that would be true if physically “turned on” was
the only thing required prior to love making.  one.

But let me start by acknowledging that, yes,
there is nothing wrong (and many things right)
about doing things to sexually stimulate a woman
before actual intercourse.

It is definitely all part of the fun.

But thing is, oral sex is… sex.  And sex,
even oral sex, should have foreplay…

So what I’m saying is… before the stuff you might
have thought of as foreplay, there should be some
foreplay.

So what is this foreplay that I’m talking
about?

Well, a lot of it doesn’t even involve touching.

Because the crucial thing you want to accomplish
during foreplay is to get your partner emotionally
ready.  In the MOOD refers to an emotional state,
not a physical state.

Now touching is a GREAT way to change a person’s
emotional state… but things like words, your
body language, your voice tonality, and your own
mental state all have a big effect here.

This is not ALWAYS the case, but I can
promise you this much – if you do or say things
during the day that make her feel a lack of trust
or break intimacy with her, it will definitely
affect what happens in the bedroom that night.

Likewise, if you demonstrate to her that you
are emotionally trustworthy, or if you do
something that displays your masculine strength
(either the muscle-kind or the strength-of-character kind),
or if you show a side of yourself that is kind or
compassionate, or if you do or say something that builds
her feelings of intimacy…

Well you will definitely feel the benefit of
that later in the bedroom too.

This is not always, or even usually, a verbal
thing.

It can be the way you hold a door for her,
the way you take her seriously when she speaks,
the way you hold eye-contact or make her laugh, it
can be the way you brush the hair back from her
eyes, or take her hand when you are walking to
lead her past some obstacle.  It can be the way
you keep your cool if something goes wrong.  It
can be the firm way in which you deal with other men
when she is watching.

These little demonstrations of masculinity
are a very big deal to your woman.  And they are
sexually powerful.

And that’s why I consider them part of foreplay.

Leading up to the bedroom, foreplay should intensify,
and everything that you do and say in the minutes
leading towards seduction are going to be very
powerful in their effect on your love making.

Here’s a GIANT tip that sounds like a
small thing, but I promise you, it is PURE GOLD
if you want to really make an impression on her:

Sweep her up and carry her to the bedroom
(or the couch, or wherever) and you will have turned
her on WAY more than putting your hand down her pants.

The combination of strength, confidence, playfulness,
dominance, and authority are a potent mix that will
send most women’s emotional circuitry into the hot
zone.

Try it.

Touching a woman in non-sexual places when
you talk to her or kiss her is much more sexually
charged for her than for you.

Stroking her hair, running the back of your
hand along her cheek, stroking your fingertips up
her back to the nape of her neck, gently massaging
her open palm and the inside of her wrists…  These
are all powerful parts of foreplay on the way
towards the bedroom.

And you cannot discount the tonality of your
voice, the way you hold her eyes, and the power of
your calm, masculine presence.

If you imagine yourself being firmly grounded and
speak from deep in your belly, you will see an
immediate difference in the way that she responds
to you.

Your masculine energy makes her feel your maleness…
which is the same feeling as being aware of her
own femininity.  She will begin to open into a more
sexualized mood.  She will begin to feel the
beginnings of the urge to surrender to your advance.

These more subtle aspects of foreplay are
things that any man can cultivate.

And while it might not seem obvious to you
reading this right now… I can promise you that it
will be VERY powerful to HER.

Don’t believe me?

Have ANY female friend read the previous page
worth of text… say from, “a lot of it doesn’t
even involve touching,” until here.

I promise you that she will not only
emphatically agree with me… she’ll probably get
turned on just reading about it.

Want even better proof:

PLEASE, go try some of this tonight before
making love to your partner.  It’s so simple
and so powerful that there just isn’t a good
excuse not to.

And now, to be weirdly obviously, this just
isn’t stuff that makes the cut in an “adult video”…
but it is 90% of the substance of women’s romance
novels.

In other words, most women crave it and most
men simply never do it.

Go have fun,

Alex
RevolutionarySex

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