***QUESTION FROM A READER***
Dear Alex,
I appreciate the news letters but how about some
advice about keeping it up, lasting long, or going
until your knees get weak. Or maybe that might be
a little too much for a guy.
I mean, I’m 19 years of age, i’m athletic, I have
a very strong back, i just don’t understand why I
can’t last longer than 25-30 min
IF there is any type of advice you can give to me
it would help because I know my girl is tired of
it. She always say DAM I WAS ALMOST THERE.
like I said, if there is any type of information
that you can give it would be greatly appreciated.
GS
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Hey man, we’ve all heard the “I’m almost there”
thing.
The thing you’ve got to understand is that the
problem is NOT how long you are lasting.
25-30 minutes of continuous thrusting is pretty
much an Olympic level performance and you’ve got
nothing to worry about on that score.
Most women can’t take continuous thrusting for
anywhere near that much time. They start to dry
out from the friction, and then it just starts to
hurt.
Great sex can definitely last for hours… but
it’s not all about just banging away in there.
Anyway, if you still think you need help in
lasting longer, yes, there are plenty of things
you can do to improve your lasting power, and
the best of them are all is to use my Command &
Control system to train yourself to achieve
non-ejaculatory male multiple orgasm.
You can find that here…
But the fact is…
And I hate to sound harsh… but If you
haven’t popped her weasel by 5 minutes of
continuous intercourse, then you are doing
something very wrong.
Without more details of exactly what is going
on between you and your girl, I can’t say for
sure what is wrong, but here’s a few things you
should try…
1. A LOT More Foreplay
By the time you put your cock inside of her,
she should be shaking with anticipation. If you
do this right, some women will actually come from
your first thrust.
Yes, you read that right.
To build that level of anticipation, you’ve
got to master the art of TEASING.
Bring her up to the edge and back her down
again… and again.
This is partly a mental game. So read the
next paragraph as many times as you need to to
fully understand it:
Teasing this way stops her from working so hard
at coming because she realizes that you aren’t even
trying to get her to come.
When you take that pressure off of her and just
have some fun with it, you’ll see things are
very different.
2. Make Her Come First By Going Down On Her
MOST women (though not all), can come much
more easily and quickly after they have already
had their first orgasm.
After a lot of foreplay and teasing, go down
on her and PAY ATTENTION to find out exactly how
much pressure and what rhythm she responds to on
her clitoris.
Once you find that rhythm, DO NOT SPEED UP OR
SLOW DOWN. Just stay right there with her and
she should come pretty quickly.
If you’re feeling extra generous, make her come
3 or 4 times this way.
Then, when you start the actual “intercourse”
part of the show, she’ll have no problem getting
back there very quickly.
3. Try A Different Position
Again, I don’t want to be harsh here, but if
you are doing something for 30 minutes and it’s
not working… Don’t you think it might be a good
idea to try something else?
Depending on her body and the areas of her
vagina or clitoris that are most sensitive… and
depending on the size and angle of YOUR equipment,
different positions are going to have very
different results.
If you need more information, or want some
specific ideas of what positions you should try
based on your anatomy and her needs, you can
find it HERE
4. WORK ON INTIMACY, NOT TECHNIQUE OR ENDURANCE
Now, the first 3 tips I gave you are solid, but
the chances are very good that none of them are
really going to be the big solution you are looking
for.
The truth is, for women, the main thing that
gets them off… the main thing that will determine
whether or not she has an orgasm… and the main
thing that will set you apart from other men she
has been with… is your ability to “emotionally
connect” with her.
Not that there’s anything wrong with being
“athletic” and having “a strong back”… I mean,
chicks dig that…
But at the end of the day, a guy that can get
into her BRAIN is going to do much more for her
sexually than a guy who can bone her for an hour
straight without taking a break.
You need to tune into her while you are having
sex and make her feel like she can trust you
enough to completely surrender herself to you.
I’d love to explain that to you right here,
but the simple fact is, it takes an entire book.
Which is why I wrote the book and why you need
to download it right now.
***SUCCESS STORY***
Hey Alex,
Thanks for putting together your book…
When my husband and I got married, we had very
different sexual backgrounds… he was very faithful
to saving himself for marriage, while I was quite
the opposite– until I met him.
Without trying to be hurtful, I endured a year and
a half of marriage without a fully satisfactory
sex life. And it wasn’t like he or I wasn’t
trying… we both were. I figured one of these
days what I was telling him about what I like
would kick in, and he’d get it.
Well….. it didn’t. I couldn’t get the
lightbulb over his head. After a long Internet
search, I found your book. It looked like what he
needed to really start rocking my world! After
screening it, I recommended it to him.
(Yeah, I read the whole thing in just a few hours.
I definitely sat there laughing and nodding to
most of it, and thinking, “Why didn’t he get it
the way I said it?”)
Nonetheless, he gets it now, and I know that with
lots of practice it’ll get better and better.
Thanks for putting a very down-to-earth book out
there. I am very thankful!
Peace,
Jessica
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Thanks so much for your email Jessica. It’s
exactly for folks like you that I wrote this book.
It really makes me so happy to think that there
is a loving couple out there that are enjoying
each other more because of what I’ve written.
Your guy is a very lucky man to have a woman
that is willing to stick it out for love and stay
faithful and keep believing in him. And I’m sure
he must be a very special guy to have earned that
much love from you.
I hope that the two of you keep on “practicing” as
much as possible for many, many years to come.
Your Friend,
Alex
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